Title: The Shared Playbook of Abusers, Racists, and Malignant Narcissists
Introduction In life, certain patterns become impossible to ignore. The more you observe, the clearer it becomes: abusers, racists, and malignant narcissists follow the same psychological playbook. They deny harm, shift blame, and refuse to take responsibility—even when the damage is undeniable. This behavior is not just personal; it extends to historical injustices, family dynamics, […]
Lekker Lewe: A Township Parable of Choice and Experience
In my twenties, while living in Temba, I came across a fascinating yet familiar story—one that reflects the essence of township life, or perhaps just the human experience. It was the story of a man known only as Lekker Lewe. Lekker Lewe made his living delivering cases of beer to the small shebeens and taverns […]
Stepping Into the Light: A Call to Action for South Africans
South Africans, it’s time we have an honest conversation. I have no kind words for the ANC or its president, Cyril Ramaphosa, who happens to be my president by default as a citizen of this country. Yet, I must acknowledge a single, bold move that stands out: on 28 May 2024, Ramaphosa signed the Cannabis […]
Perspectives Versus Reality: The Dance Between Truth and Light
Imagine a piece of paper on the floor with a “6” written on it. To someone standing on the opposite side, it is a “9.” Both individuals might argue, with equal passion, that their perspective is the truth. But here’s the question: Is truth a matter of perspective, or does reality exist independent of how […]
Algorithms vs. the Subconscious Mind: The Illusion of Choice
In the age of technology, algorithms have become an integral part of our daily lives. From the social media feeds we scroll to the recommendations we receive on streaming platforms, algorithms subtly shape our choices, often without us noticing. Similarly, the human subconscious mind operates as an internal algorithm, guiding our thoughts, actions, and decisions. […]
The Resilience of the African Mind: Embracing AI Without Losing Our Humanity
The African mind has always been remarkable in its ability to adapt to the natural world with wisdom and resilience. Rooted in philosophies of interconnectedness and harmony with nature, this adaptability has been a cornerstone of survival and flourishing on this continent for millennia. However, in today’s rapidly evolving world, we face a new challenge: […]
Recording Your Melodies, Recording Your Legacy: A Guide for Modern Musicians
Honoring the Spirit of Solomon Linda Imagine the magic of Solomon Linda in 1939, crafting the melody of Mbube, which would later evolve into The Lion Sleeps Tonight and captivate the world. Now imagine if he had today’s tools to share his music independently, secure his legacy, and ensure that his family’s problems were not […]
Why Must Africans Embrace AI?
Sometimes, you find yourself in situations where you weren’t part of the problem, but you’re forced to be part of the solution. It’s a terrible reality: if you’re excluded from shaping that solution, you’ll have no say when the new problems arise from it. This is the situation we face right now. I’m speaking directly […]
Healthy Narcissism: Embracing the Light Within
In our world of hashtags and hot takes, few terms are as misunderstood and misused as narcissism. Often thrown around as an insult, it has become synonymous with selfishness, arrogance, or outright toxic behavior. But what if I told you that not all narcissism is bad? In fact, a healthy dose of narcissism is not […]
Reclaiming Our Balance: A Challenge for 2025
As 2025 approaches, it’s time for South Africans to take a hard look at ourselves, our society, and the systems we navigate. The world is fast-paced and competitive, and we live in a capitalist environment that often rewards self-promotion, power, and even selfishness. But where does that leave humility, compassion, and the values that truly […]